Okay... so there's Luci. 10 months out of rehab, single mother, and I'm one of her few friends. I am trying to do what I can to help her.. but I want to push this into a relationship. I was talking with tori about this the other day... to say Luci is one of the guys is an understatement. She doesn't respond to what I call flowers and flattery. She doesn't like that or appreciate that. She is very blunt. she'll rub her leg and say heh I need to shave, here, feel Charlie. yuck. I know you wont like this, but I can peg everyone into a group based on actions I know what works and what don't for who... but her.. she is so difficult to define. She never went on dates.. isn't a girly girl, or a tomboy... she's just.. Luci. She grew up lower middle class, as did I, so there is no financial strain with expectations.. we are realitstic.. I just dont know how to show I am interested.

lol i aint even gona reply to this cause i've talked to u about it so much on msn but.. luci reminds me so much of me!

She is a blunt person,
So maybe she'd appreciate bluntness.

I know I do.

Also, flirting is like a shy way of saying, "I like you".

From what you said to me, I reckon you should maybe leave it a while. Let her get her feet on the ground and such. You being there for her would be a help.
Though if anything happens, it happens. ^^


Good luck

Puff xx

*Kumars Accent*

Agreed Sanjeed!